Saturday, January 29, 2011

Somethings Gotta Give

Best Blogger Tips
 emailed to me anonymously         i like my best friends ex. im not a slut or nothing like that. i just like him and he likes me back. me and him have discussed going there but are hesitant because we know it will appear trifling. me and him have so much in common. we all keep the same circle of friends and everytime i see him i feel drawn to him. we can go in a corner and talk all nite about everything and anything. the chemistry is there, no doubt about that. Him and my bestie dated for a little over a year about 6 years ago, they parted with no hard feelings. when we all run into each other we all kick it like we are still in college. to be honest it seems like he is perfect for me, hes sexy, cute, educated, hes rich, believes in God, and he stays in shape because he's a professional football player. he invites me to his games and honestly sometimes i go. im more hesitatnt than he is. i dont want to lose out on a good man and i definitely dont want to lose my best friend. me and him have gone out to eat before and the times we have i  get extra just for him. we have never kissed only hugged, but i want to kiss him, i want to date him openly, i  want to be his lady and him my man. Two weeks ago he invited me to come visit him while he was out of town, he bought my airline ticket (1st class), I stayed at the Ritz-Carlton in a suite that was like 2000sq ft, we slept together, but not sexually. the weekend was mind-blowing but on the last day my best friend called and i drew back from him and felt sooo guilty. He was upset but he says he understands why i feel how i feel, but he is ready to make it official and he is giving me 2 weeks to make my mind up or hes going to have put his feelings away and move foward with his life.   what should i do?  
<!--ee10ae7325c04862bb6309463d2879b8-->                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Somethings Gotta Give