tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4429509557170282036.post4626881119865224067..comments2023-03-26T18:01:57.746-05:00Comments on if only i knew then...: its the jumpoff right hereIFONLYIKNEWTHENhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06374135022692544381noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4429509557170282036.post-62716859176692851722011-01-28T08:53:26.490-06:002011-01-28T08:53:26.490-06:00I'm mad at both! "Jumpoff" needs to ...I'm mad at both! "Jumpoff" needs to be added to the long list of relationship statuses. Me, I can't be a jumpoff...not the type. Once after a bad breakup, I entertained it because I was hurt and didn't want to place myself in a situation where I could be hurt again. But, I'm too selfish for that mess. Get your own, and leave the others alone. Jumpoffs have indeed lost their minds, though, when it comes to their rightful places. But because these men have left their wife and families and married the mistress, the jumpoff now believes she's the ish. WRONG! The next young, pretty thing will come along and snatch the man from the (former) jumpoff!Mselle81https://www.blogger.com/profile/18296847503926971372noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4429509557170282036.post-55659823640512206032011-01-28T08:44:03.458-06:002011-01-28T08:44:03.458-06:00I agree wholeheartedly! JOs are not staying in the...I agree wholeheartedly! JOs are not staying in there place. But it is bc the men are not letting them no they're place. If they MUST cheat then they nerd to remember to take care of home and keep their mistress/jumpoff separate from his family and make her stay in her lane! Don't get me wrong I don't condone or promote cheating but if you must cheat then do it right or get out the relationship!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4429509557170282036.post-31826465898023741902011-01-28T01:50:43.376-06:002011-01-28T01:50:43.376-06:00@anomoyous- i agree i think they confuse being wit...@anomoyous- i agree i think they confuse being with the jumpoff with reality. when somebody is with a JO things are easy bc no expectations come with the situation. it comes with no solid committment! some people like it easy bc of the simplicity of it all. anybody that doesnt want to be challenged has major insecurities plaguing them and they truley dont realize it. nowadays its sad how this is becoming the norm. people say dont judge, i say dont put yourself in a situation where you wont be judged. hell wrong is wrong i dont care what end u slice tht loaf of breadIFONLYIKNEWTHENhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06374135022692544381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4429509557170282036.post-19844187481858730982011-01-28T01:25:40.126-06:002011-01-28T01:25:40.126-06:00I feel like the men that are fooling with the JO&#...I feel like the men that are fooling with the JO's is not putting them in their place because of the fact that some men are just complete idiots. some men also feel like the JO's are equal to their spouse (how they get that idea IDK).I cant say that I am mad at the women for being that mistress for the simple fact that I am not the one in the situation(that i know of). So i cant express true feelings on it. yes its wrong and trifling and everything else under the sun but I do know that if I ever get put in the situation, then my husband and his other bitch had better get ghost cause Im kicking ass first and taking names way later........LOL but hey! To each its own and its not for me to be pissed at the next woman, cause like in the last blog every one of us is human and they need companions as well even if it is someone elses man......*blank stare*Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com